This has been repeatedly asked over the years and now that there’s a chapter in a new biography referencing the event I’m sure people are reading and wondering again so, maybe I can put this one to bed.
Coming off stage a comment was made to me by another band member, delivered in the heat of the moment in a rather curt and rude fashion and incorporating the ‘f’ word if memory serves me correctly, in regards to the amount of time I would take to get from the kit to the front of stage to take the group bow. What wasn’t taken into consideration was that, as irritating as this might have been, it took time to get freed from wires (I was using a BPM machine via an ear piece) and various things needed doing in preparation for any further music that might be performed. Sometimes this would go smoothly but not always, either way I felt I was merely doing my job, one that I take quite seriously and feel is more important than taking timely bows or leisurely strolls. Much to my shame and regret I felt simultaneously very angry and very hungry and whilst helping myself to a slice of cheese with Mr. Barbieri standing dangerously close to me, I felt the mindless and irresistible urge (no doubt partially due to the fact that I’d been hammering drums for the past two hours) to slam down whatever I was holding in my left hand into the table with excessive force. Unfortunately for me, (and anyone with tickets for the next few shows) this was a rather large glass cheeseboard dome 😦
Time off for bad behaviour (think this is a selfie by Robby Aceto –pictured right).